Well, apparently I had quite the wrong end of the stick when it comes to my breakup. The full venting is located on my double-secret probation blog, but I have to say something here, too.
Question: Is it normal, a mere five days after breaking up with someone you have purported to respect and care about for the past twelve years, to go on a date with the new girl at work? And then to go on several more after that, with no intention of stopping?
Is it normal to take her to a party with all of your friends and family, less than two full weeks after said breakup?
What kind of a person DOES that?
Moving on is part of life, and screws fall out all the time---the world is an imperfect place. I get that. I was planning on moving on myself, after a decent amount of time had passed.
His dating a girl (whom, logic dictates, was essentially waiting in the wings) so quickly is just ugly, and mean, and disrespectful, and cold, and it means that I can never be friends with him again.
I can't be friends with someone who values and respects me so little, and is so unaware that his recent actions serve mostly to humiliate me in front of all of our friends.
I don't even want to know someone like that.
Which is going to be really awkward for all our friends. Sorry in advance, guys, but it's not my fault---this one is all on him. I have suffered the many and varied shades of his idiocy for a long time now, and willingly. I was willing because I loved him, and I had faith in him to be more careful with me than he's been with past girlfriends. Because it's me.
But I'm just not capable of getting over this last bit.
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